Fertility & Adoption Coach
I'm a survivor of 9 IUI's, 4 IVF's, 4 egg donor matches gone bust and 1 failed adoption... I never did get pregnant, but I never gave up... and now I am a proud Mom to 3 beautiful boys. So I, more than most, understand your pain, frustration, confusion, anger and loneliness. And now I am here to help you navigate your own journey to build a family! Whether it be using infertility treatments, egg donation, surrogacy or even adoption - I will be there with you each step of the way to see you through to success! Let's do this!
Have you been trying to conceive for years and have nothing to show for it other than debt from expensive fertility procedures?
Have you suffered multiple losses, only to hear from your doctor that they don’t really know why?
Are you tired of people telling you to “just relax” or go on vacation to get pregnant?
Do you feel like everyone around you is pregnant?
I know the desire you're feeling to have a baby is strong, just as my desire was too. So I've made it my mission to help YOU make high-impact changes that will transform YOUR life from the inside out.
I will help you build a family even if you have no idea where to start or how to keep going after so many disappointments. Connect with me for your free 20 minute discovery session to get started.
I want you to have faith you are exactly where you are meant to be and that someday, these challenges will have meaning that you may not be able to see right now.
Imagine welcoming each day with confidence because you know that you will hold your baby someday!
Imagine if seeing a pregnant woman no longer sent you into a tizzy wanting to drown your sorrows in a bottle of wine.
Imagine enjoying baby showers trusting someday soon it will be you in their place.
Imagine no longer planning your life around “what if’s” and avoiding trips or parties “just in case” you get pregnant. Instead, you live your life to the fullest here and now.
Imagine no longer obsessing or worrying over the countless ways to improve your odds of getting pregnant by trusting the process will lead you to the baby you were meant to raise.
I will lead you through the slew of options.
I will be an empathetic and understanding shoulder.
I will encourage you to never to give up hope.
I will (ever so gently) push you to take action and keep moving forward.
I will pick you up and comfort you when you are the depths of despair.
I will help you identify your fears, triggers, and information you're missing.
I will make a plan with you to help you feel empowered, encouraged, and equipped for the journey.
I will inspire you to live your truth even when others may be doubting you.
And I will be your greatest cheerleader when you find success.
As Your Coach...
One thing I hated most was when someone would say "maybe it's just not meant to be" or "maybe it's God's way of telling you, this isn't your path to be a Mom". Please don't ever let someone else shatter your dreams! This is YOUR life and you can have anything you desire if you want it bad enough.
What I discovered was it wasn't just about the DESTINATION of having a child that was to be my destiny, but it was also the JOURNEY that would make my life richer in ways I had never anticipated.
I will encourage you to look at not only the destination, but to find value in your difficult and challenging journey. Ready to learn how?
REASONS TO USE COACHING
AVOID TIME CONSUMING AND COSTLY MISTAKES
THE WAIT IS BRUTAL (develop stratagies to live life fully and happily while waiting)
HELP WITH THE HARD DECISIONS
AVOID COLLATERAL DAMAGE (to your marriage, health, friendhips and career)
SOLVE PROBLEMS EVEN BEFORE YOU ARE AWARE OF THEM
If you find yourself at the bottom of a mountain, unsure how to get to the top… If you find yourself unable to have what you desire most in this world, YOUR own family, then I will be your partner to guide you.
If your mind is telling you 'can't', listen to your heart and rewrite the story
What sets women apart who become moms vs. those who do not, despite all the odds... is mindset.
A study published in Fertility and Sterility, a publication of the American Society of Reproductive Medicine, showed 55% of previously infertile women who met regularly in a Mind-Body Infertility program conceived within 6 months after the program, compared to only 20% in a control group that used no mind-body techniques. They had been collecting data for 20 years on the women who attend the mind/body program and the results are consistent. About half the patients get pregnant within six months, and about 95% become moms somehow within two years.
Schedule a complementary discovery session with me to find out how I can help shift your mindset.
Dealing with the feeling of loss caused by infertility can be very lonely. It felt like a huge weight was lifted when I worked with Kacy. She asked the right questions and helped me to gain a sense of control over my fertility issues, which had previously seemed so hopeless and complex. I no longer felt so alone, and she encouraged me to take things one step at a time toward my goal of having another child.
Working with Kacy was really helpful and enlightening. I wasn't sure what to expect from our sessions, but I felt it could be helpful to have guidance. From our first session, she was able to understand where I was and which questions would make me think and open my mind to new ideas, feelings and options. I now have a new perspective and inspiration for my journey.
My husband and I recently adopted a baby girl and couldn't be happier.
I found Kacy to be a compassionate coach, a good listener and someone I felt I could talk with to get to the heart of the matter. She guided me to think in ways I would not have done on my own and supported me in my journey to make positive changes. I'm now 3 months pregnant after 5 years of struggling on my own! Coaching with Kacy is a GAME CHANGER!